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Kissing Goodbye To February!

Wow - what a sexy month! This February we became kissing obsessed after we launched our XXX-Rated Guide To Kissing. Many thanks to Valerie Gibson who has coached us on how to become a sultry goddess in the bedroom, and to all of you who broke the rules and kiss and told about your most intimate kissing moments.

Hopefully we helped to score you some extra smooches this Valentine's and we apologize if this extra action has left you with sore lips - don't worry our LipFusion Micro-injected Collagen Lip Plump can always help smooth and sooth!

Stay tuned as this week we will be revealing exciting news about a new product! Can’t wait, then here's a clue; we haven't finished spicing things up in the bedroom quite yet.

Kiss & Tell Contest: Secret Smooches

This is the last time we are going to kiss and tell, we have loved reading all about your most memorable moments! This week we asked you describe your SEXIEST kiss. Let's turn up the temperature as we hear from this weeks winner Heather Anne Hicks......

"My sexiest kiss was at my husband's graduation from basic training. They are not aloud public displays of affection while in uniform at graduation, which lasts 3 days and then they ship off to tech school. It was the first time I had seen him in 8 weeks so we were dying for a smooch! We hid out in the back seat of our rental car and shared the long awaited, SEXY kiss. What made it even more sexy was that it was forbidden."

Well, who can resist a man in uniform!

Keep on kissing and remember LipFusion can help to perfect your pout so that you will always be ready to lock lips. If you didn't win don't worry, you can buy our Sweet To Sexy Kissing Kit ($49) for one more day.

Ask The Sexpert: How To Get Sexy And Make It Last!

Q: My significant other complains I only dress up to go out and he gets left with the tomboy leftovers at home - wearing a hat, jeans and no makeup. I admit I need to jazz it up at home and take it from “sweet” to “sexy” but am not sure where to start. Should I dress up everyday or just start in the bedroom? 

Most people feel that when they get home after a long day or on the weekend, they just want to relax in their comfy, familiar clothes. But that doesn’t mean you should look like an unmade bed! While many partners don’t care how their significant other looks when they’re at home the point here is, yours does. What’s more, he’s said so. It isn’t a compliment to your partner if you feel it doesn’t matter how rough and unkempt you look at home and only make an effort when you go out. It says you don’t care about him and his feelings. And I’m sure you do. It also says you don’t take pride in yourself.

So perhaps it’s time to assess your image. If your home clothes are shabby, grubby, worn or torn – toss them out. It doesn’t necessarily mean you have to endlessly “dress up”. Go shopping. Stores everywhere are filled with great, inexpensive casual clothes you can still feel comfortable in and look stylish. Then start a regular routine of personal grooming including putting on some makeup every morning, including weekends, such as blush, mascara, gloss or lipstick. Get your hair cut and styled professionally so it’s easy to take care of daily. It will make you feel good about yourself - half the battle of overcoming personal apathy. If you want to boost the relationship even more, it certainly helps to spice things up in the bedroom with some sexy lingerie, candles and, especially, enthusiasm.

FusionBeautify your lips to be plump and glossy, ready for some serious kissing. I’m sure you’ll be happy with the results and so will your partner… 

           

Q: What can I do to help my man last a bit longer during sex? 

I presume you’re asking abut premature ejaculation? I also presume you’re both young (you don’t say) as it is considered to be mainly a young man’s problem. Men generally last longer and become better lovers are they age. It’s a lack of control and is associated with inexperience and anxiety or perhaps wanting to get the sex act finished quickly.

The problem is that if early orgasm is how your man started off experiencing sex, he may have difficulty changing matters. It can also make it more difficult for the male if his partner takes a long time to become fully aroused and this should be addressed as well if you’re experiencing difficulty. The good news, however, is that premature ejaculation is one of the easier sex problems to improve.

For a start, you can certainly help him (and maybe yourself?) by extending mutual foreplay and, for instance, giving each other sensual massages first. If he feels that an orgasm is about to happen, then he should let you know and you can give him the “squeeze method” to stop ejaculation.This is a proven technique where you firmly grasp the penis around its head with your forefingers and thumb. When he signals he’s close to ejaculation, you squeeze hard for five seconds. His erection may go down a little but you can massage him more until he gets it back.

Then you can move onto intercourse – the best method for this problem is for you to be on top and you can climb off if he feels he is about to climax and try the squeeze method again. Then go on top again and gently enjoy intercourse for at least 15 minutes and then he can be allowed to ejaculate. This will makes him feel he can last longer and will restore confidence in himself. If, however, the problem is acute and this method doesn’t work, there are medications that can control anxiety and slow down ejaculation. He should then go to his physician or a men’s clinic for help.

Seriously Sexy Science: Lip Tips

Week Three

This is the ultimate guide to achieving a perfectly kissable pout. Practice these tips and you too can have gorgeous full lips!

• Did your lip color look perfect in the mirror but now your lips are shouting? Tone down a too-bright shade by applying a light topcoat or gloss in a beige or neutral brown. LipFusion Lip Plump in Bare, or InFATuation in In the Flesh will do the trick!
• Eat more fat! That's right, essential fatty acids keep your heart healthy, fight inflammation, and may possibly prevent some cancers. But they also help keep skin healthy, glowing and super-soft. Munch on salmon and flax-seed oil for a great skin (and lip) boost!
• Bad breath ruins even the sexiest kiss. Great oral hygiene is key to the perfect kiss-ready pout. Brushing and flossing go without saying, but always keep breath mints or spray handy for those impromptu lip-intimate moments.
• Keep your beauty bag clean! Dirty brushes and 2-yr old lipsticks create a haven for bacteria and spell disaster for your skin. Take time to purge your cosmetic bag and keep it clean. Bonus: now you have the excuse to go shopping again!
• Basic daily must-haves for purse; pressed powder compact, travel-size moisturizer and sunscreen, lip balm, lip color, travel-size.
• Try one of these timeless and always sexy go-to looks: smoky eyes and a barely there pout. Try LipFusion Color Shine in Bare or Sweet. Or, play down your eyes and rev up your lips with a rich red shade that stops traffic. Try LipFusion’s Color Shine in Sexy and Pencil in Glam.
• Figure out your skin type. 15 minutes after washing and drying your
face, press lens-cleaning paper on different parts of your face. If it
doesn't stick anywhere, you have dry skin. If it only sticks on your
forehead, nose and chin, you have normal or combination skin. If it
sticks everywhere, you have oily skin. Voila!

5 Ways Kissing Can Be......Really Sexy!

You knew making out could get hot and heavy, but did you know any of these sexy kissing facts? Use your kisses to seduce your man and show him that a little lip action can go along way, especially when you are wearing a coat of the latest LipFusion plumper!

• It is possible for a woman to reach an orgasm through kissing! 
• The Kama Sutra lists over 30 types of kisses, such as “fighting of the tongue". 
• Men are more than twice as likely to have sex with a bad kisser as women are. 
• Lips are 100 times more sensitive than the tips of the fingers. 
• An average woman kisses about 79 men before getting married.

Kiss & Tell Contest: Nothing To Smile About!

 

This week it was time to bare all and tell us about your most EMBARRASSING kiss. From the sloppy, to the miss-timed you guys have had some bad experiences! This weeks winner has no one but herself to blame for her imperfect peck. I'll let Destiny Ainslie explain......

"I was in the shower when _____ called and asked me to hang out. It was a warm night so I just jumped out of the shower, put on mascara and lip gloss and ran out the door. We were just driving around town talking, I was so nervous because I liked him so much. I wasn't thinking clearly, or about anything but him and wondering about our first kiss, like if it would ever happen.Well, it did. That night! It was so perfect, UNTIL he told me I tasted like glue,peppermints and rubber cement... UGH! I forgot to take my teeth whitening strips off since I was in a hurry to get out the door!"

Disaster! Next time ditch the strips and go for a LipFusion lip plumper with a smile whitening shine!

Check in with us next week for the final installment of our Kiss & Tell contest and to see who wins another of our limited edition Sweet To Sexy Kissing Kits

Ask The Sexpert: It's Never Too Late To Get Lippy

Q: I heard that when you wear dark pink or red lip gloss, men are more attracted to you because it shows a more healthy, fertile woman. Is this true?

Aurel xoxo

There’s no question that full, colored lips on a woman attract male attention. Just think Angelina Jolie! While it may not exactly state a woman is more healthy and fertile, the non verbal signal they give to men is most definitely connected with our sexuality.

For a start, when we’re attracted to a man, our lips naturally turn redder and plump up a little. They also increase in sensitivity making them well primed for sensual kissing and are so important in mating we invent all kinds of ways to touch our own mouth and lips when we’re interested in someone. But the subliminal message to men is that full, shiny red or deep pink lips resemble female private parts which also engorge with blood and deepen in color when we’re sexually aroused.

So, wearing dark pink or red lip gloss will certainly help to give you the edge in attracting the opposite sex. And if you feel Nature has bypassed you in the full lips department, you can now achieve both plumper lips plus perfect gloss by using the exciting new lip plumping products from FusionBeauty!

             

Q: My boyfriend and I kiss perfectly and both agree we’ve never experienced such loving and sensual kissing before. What is happening here? We’re both in our 50s and we’ve kissed other people over the years, but not as perfect and wonderful as this.

Lucky In Love!

Wow! Lucky, lucky couple! You’ve discovered what everyone longs for and searches for – great chemistry between you. And chemistry it really is, as kissing releases special chemicals and hormones when two people are very attracted to each other – no matter what their age.

They are dopamine (involved in processing the brain’s emotions); oxytocin (helps create attachment and affection); adrenalin (increases the heart rate) and serotonin (affects moods and feeling). We also smell each other’s pheromones when we get very close, (for biological compatibility), and, what’s more, our lips, (and our parts), plump up and come alive when the heart rate goes up making the blood flow faster.

When a kiss is wonderful it really does release a potent cocktail! Kisses are also a great indicator. Most people know if they’re going to be suited physically (or not) when they have their first passionate kiss and also know at that point whether they are going to progress further with the relationship.

So, enjoy and indulge in the extraordinary and exciting pleasures of kissing each other and always make it a big part of the loving sensuality between you!

Seriously Sexy Science: Lip Tips

Week Two

This is the ultimate guide to achieving a perfectly kissable pout. Practice these tips and you too can have gorgeous full lips!

• To keep lip color off teeth, pucker lips into an extreme "O". Cover your finger with tissue, and poke it into your mouth. Slowly twist it out of your mouth, eliminating any excess color. Voila!
• A gorgeous smile is about more than sexy, kissable lips – remember to take care of your teeth too! Be extra sly and wear one of LipFusion’s teeth brightening Color Shines like Sugar or Ripe!
• Lipsticks and lip pencils last longer when stored in the fridge (and they feel more refreshing too!)
• Your favourite lip color says a lot about you! Pale pink says pretty and sweet, red means daring or chic, coral shades are for the fiery or adventurous, and brown tone lovers are timeless and classic. Note: browns look great on every pout! Try LipFusion’s Pencil in Pout, InFatuation in Big and Bare, or Color Shine in Goddess.
• Use your liner on top of lipstick. This helps avoid the telltale lines around your lips when your color wears off.
• If you purchase a lipstick that ends up on the ‘don’t’ list, try it as a blush instead. A color that doesn’t work on lips might look great on cheeks.
• Always keep conditioner on your lips and exfoliate regularly to keep them ultra-soft. Massage with a toothbrush to remove dry and excess skin. LipFusion XL delivers a double treat while you sleep, by deeply moisturizing and plumping too (bonus: it tastes delicious!)

5 Ways Kissing Can Be......Dangerous!

As fun as kissing may be, you ought to be aware that it can also be risky. With some weird kissing laws and strange side effects, there is a dangerous side to kissing that might have you rethinking you passion for frenching!

• A long-lasting kiss quickens the pulse and heightens level of hormones in human’s blood so much that it shortens the lifespan by almost a minute.
• When two people kiss, they exchange between 10 million and 1 billion bacteria.
• A medieval manuscript warns Japanese men against deep kissing during the female orgasm. because a woman might accidentally bite off part of her lover’s tongue.
• Kissing can be a crime .... It's illegal in Indiana for a mustached man to "habitually kiss human beings", in Hartford, Connecticut it's illegal for a husband to kiss his wife on Sunday and in Cedar Rapids, Iowa, it's a crime to kiss a stranger.
• In Naples, Italy in the 16th century, kissing was an offense that carried the death penalty.

Ask The Sexpert: Rev Your Engines This Bed Is A Two Sleeper!

 

Q: My hubby and I had a very active sex life before we had our two-year-old daughter. We were making love all the time. Now she’s in our bed every night and we may go months without any TLC time. We also have three other girls. How do I get that spark back??

Nicole

xoxo

A: Although children and their needs undoubtedly come first, it shouldn’t mean they come between their parents in a way that interferes with their intimacy and bonding. And especially when you have no sexual fun together at any time.

Sex is the glue that holds couples together. Ignore that loving closeness or put it low on the list of priorities and you’ll regret it. So first step. Your two-year-old should no longer be sleeping in your bed. She should be in her own by now. I know, I know – there’ll be tantrums and wailing but for the sake of your marriage you have to be firm and stand by your decision. Put a lock on your bedroom door if necessary!

If that fails, then get creative. Book an overnight babysitter or co-opt a relative to come in and care for your children and you and hubby head off to a motel for the night. Re-create those sexy days when you couldn’t keep your hands off each other. If that’s out of financial range, send them to a willing relative or friend for an evening so you can have a “date” night at home. And don’t fall asleep on the sofa!!

Work on stimulating each other – whatever it takes. A martini or two, wine, shower together, a soft porno movie, massages with oils, sex toys, a fun, sexy board game (go together to a sex store). Anticipation is so stimulating! Make date nights a regular habit.

A life without sex is a life without sunshine. It’s also risky as few people can manage without any sex at all and it can make them vulnerable to temptation!

             

Q: I’m 27 and have no sex drive whatsoever. I’m married to an amazing guy who is wonderful to me and I love more than anything. But, for some reason, over the past year, my sex drive has gone to below zero. I’m still young, so what could possibly be the problem? Could it be a hormonal issue?

Ivy x 

A: Usually when I get this question, the women concerned are much older than you and it is often a case of an age-related hormonal drop, their medication or a physical difficulty. But, as you say, you are extremely young for this to happen and especially since you appear to be happily married to someone you love, it doesn’t seem to be emotional withdrawal.

You don’t say if you are taking any kind of medication or if you are under any kind of unusual stress such as at work or a family matter. These can overwhelm your ability to feel sexy and sexual as can marital problems such as infidelity by your partner or poor sexual skills or experience. If it’s the latter, then read a good book on sex together such as The Joy of Sex or see a sex therapist.

If none of those fit the bill, then it could be an internal physical problem or perhaps a hormonal issue (and I have to say here I am not a doctor!) and most definitely something you should check out with your family physician. If the answer doesn’t satisfy you, then ask to be referred to a gynecologist or a specialist.

You’re far too young to be living a life without sexual desire and of course, the more you worry about it, the worse it will become. You must also be very concerned about the effect of such a lack of drive on your husband and marriage so don't ignore the situation.